The most courageous thing I have ever done in my life happened a few years ago. I was 24 years old, and I wanted to be an Electrical Engineer, I was in the 10th semesters and finishing my thesis. My whole family had great expectations for my future as a professional. They always said that i was very smart and that I would have a bright future as an engineer. As a matter of fact, I come from a family of engineers. My father is a Mechanical Engineer, my mother is a Mechanical Engineer and my brother is a Mechanical Engineer, so they expected that I would become an engineer too.
The Way. © Carlos Ocando.
At that moment I felt empty and lost. I didn’t like my work during my internship, and I felt that I would have to work on something that I didn’t enjoy or like. During that time I started to read several inspirational books, one quote from a Wayne Dyer’s book really moved me. It said: “Don’t die with your music still in you”, I also felt very inspired by the Conversations with God series written by Neale Donald Walsh.
I became inspired to focus my energy, thoughts, and efforts on becoming what I really wanted to be and do. Recently my heart felt moved by nature, art and photography. So I decided to take the most scary and risky thing I have ever done in my life. I decided to become a Professional Fine Art Photographer. Every body was against me at the beginning, I felt a lot of pressure and stress, but with the support of my now wife I kept going.
I started to buy books, tutorials and got my hand in every photography book I could find. I started to work as a photographer for a magazine covering small events, and participated in some photography contests with photos of nature. Eventually I won the respect of a few master photographers, and one of them offered me the opportunity to work with him and to teach me how to accomplish my goal. Since then I have a number of awards, and I’m represented by some galleries including in NYC. Everyday I thank God for the gift of my life and that I have had the courage to make that decision and be who I am today. If you have an idea, a dream or something that you want to do, and feel that is important for you don’t abandon it. Follow your heart and your bliss and don’t the naysayers to make you give up. You can do it my friend, YOU CAN DO IT…
Carlos